Celebrate HER

"Women Hold up half the sky."                                                               

  -Mao Zedong

The Dawn it is today,bright and illuminous,whats Special about today?
Well heck yes,Its Womens Day...So What came another Question?

Should not Women be Celebrated everyday,lest just a Day dedicated to her?
Came a boomerang from my core belief.

Yes,My fellow readers.This article is not about Women Empowerment etc and all.

Its just a tribute to all MY WOMEN,who have molded me to a Woman I am Today.

                          Just a Photo Blog,with some Tweets and Emotions involved.

AMMA ,AM YOUR STAR ALWAYS AND FOREVER,WHICH EVER LASTS LONG#Kisses and Bear Hugs

WOMEN INFLUENCER NO 1:AMMA

" A hand that Rocks the Cradle rules the World."

The adage stands true for Me.From giving birth to molding me,nurturing me,pruning me,empowering me and turning me to a woman,where world looks upto,is because of HER.

I was a ZERO,from a stammering,weakling to a Woman Brave in her front,SHE IS THE ONE BEHIND MY SPINE.

Woman behind DR STARRY JOHN.

Amma,Someday I wish to be like You,beautiful and Charming.

Will always add feather to your hat always and promising to be your STAR                                                LOVE YOU DOWN THE MILKY WAY

Dearest Sona Mam,Mother To Me.

 WOMAN INFLUENZER NO 2:DR SONA MAM

Its Rare to find Amazing teachers,specially those who know yourself,better than you know.

She was the one who illuminated me about my talents,and what career if taken up would be a boon not only to me,but the world also.

She has never refused me any help till date.Encouraging and carassing me with her motherly instincts,is always welcoming for me.

Great Thanks and Gratitude brims my soul,Whenever I think
 I OWE YOU TO WHATEVER I AM TODAY

She is My Nemo,If I get Lost in the Great,big ocean,She Fishes Me out.

WOMAN INFLUENZER NO 3:ANJU

My Childhood Sweetheart,She has always been there Upping My confidence always.

Her words ring in my ears always when am down in qualms,"STARRY YOU ARE A STAR,REMEMBER THAT."

She always been there Bearing my mood swings,

Its a Privilege for me to be your Maid of honor.

"The higher the better. It's more about an attitude. High heels empower women in a way."

This quote by Christian Louboutin speaks about Her.

She has been there like a Rock,and has helped me lay my foundation.

MY BASS TACK

"ALWAYS READY TO TAKE ME TO A ROLLER COASTER RIDE"

WOMAN INFLUENCER NO 4 AND 5:JAANU AND SUVI

They are MY BACON BITS,in the SALAD of MY  LIFE.

"Just a CALL ,TEXT,they RUN to my AID."

From helping ME to take a Bold stand to whats Right and Good for Me and Helping me Take Radical decisions,THEY HAVE STOOD GROUNDED.

Bear Hugs and Kisses;)

"SHE'S CRAB GRASS IN THE LAWN OF MY LIFE"

WOMAN INFLUENCER NO 6:LIBBY DIDI

If there is someone,WHOM I FOLLOW BLINDLY,IT HAS TO BE HER.

She has been there in my cracks and pieces,in the saddest of times.She has guided,lifted and picked up and helped me To be MY WHOLESOME SELF.

MY BIG SISSY;)

MY HUMAN DIARY

WOMAN INFLUENZER NO 7 AND 8:JOPU AND SHARON:

Cell Mates is what we Define our Company.

Praying,Fighting and Dancing together.

Whether in alleys or Ups,they have been there.

Resourceful and Amazingly woven .Beautiful blend of Love and Bossom.

Well I can behave Like a CRAP ,MELODRAMA ONLY IN FRONT OF THEM.

I can recall when they stood like my Pillar when my Life was falling out of Cracks.

When I recount those days,YOU ALWAYS GIVEN ME MESSAGE,TO STOP FOR LOOKING LOVE IN THE WRONG PLACE.

Well I hold this Postulate till date.

And I keep My Knit Close and Strong.

I have grown With You and will continue to...

My Happy Place.

SOME SPECIAL MENTIONS:ERNCY CECILIA,CELINE MACWAN,ANU;)

Great Thanks for Keeping me IN My Hue and Consistency.

I LOVE YOU MY WOMAN TRIBE.

THIS IS MY TRIBE.......

And Whatever Little I am Is all BOUT THEM.

 Winding Up with a Short Poem

She is like a Drop in Big Ocean,which actually makes Ocean Blue in wholesome

She is like a flower that continues to bloom and blossom no matter the environment around

She is like a whirlpool of emotions clamoring

She is like a Hero in her Little ways.

Dear Men,Respect Her ,Lover Her,Pamper Her,Hug Her,and Tell her She is the Queen 

Pause,Period..........

HAPPY WOMENS DAY TO ALL WOMEN READING THIS

BE YOURSELF

EMBRACE YOURSELF

WAIT FOR THE RIGHT MAN TO RULE YOUR HEART.

BE CAREFUL WHOM YOU GIVE YOUR ENERGY.

Well dear Readers,I humble request you to stop by Dr Sameer Sir's blog.

he has woven an exceptional piece celebrating HIS WOMEN TRIBE.

Claps and Drum Rolls Sir.

https://mypersonalspaceforsensitivesoul.blogspot.in/2018/03/a-born-womanizer.html?spref=fb

From The DramaQueen HErSelf

Dr Starry John

CREATIVITY STREAKS

"What is Creativity?

The relationship between a human being and the mysteries of inspiration"

                                                                                             -Elizabeth Gilbert

                                                                                                 (Big Magic)

This article is purely drafted to provide you some learning points from a Wonderful Book,I just read this afternoon,"Mastering Creativity-By James Clear."

The author puts down merely life lessons and begets any hypothesis.
He has kept the flow of his writing by providing different hacks to clear those mental blocks which we are conditioned to live these days.

Let me begin with a story.

Pablo Picasso,the famous Spanish artist,was walking through the market one day when a woman spotted him.She stopped the artist,pulled out a piece of paper and said,"Mr,Picasso,I am a fan of your work.Please ,could you do a little drawing for me?"

Picasso smiled and quickly drew a small,but beautiful piece of art on the paper.Then ,he handed the paper back to her saying,"That will be one million dollars."

"But,Mr Picasso," the woman said,It only took you thirty seconds to draw this little master piece."
"My good woman," Picasso said,"It took me thirty years to draw that masterpiece in thirty seconds."


TAKEAWAY TIP 1:

"EVEN PEOPLE OF CONSIDERABLE TALENT RARELY PRODUCE INCREDIBLE WORK BEFORE DECADES OF PRACTICE."

ARE YOU READY TO BREAK THE MONOTONY?

So next time,when you work on your Dream Project and it fails at the first shot,dont grin and ruin ,but try and try and with relentless efforts,you shall transcend to greater glory for sure.


Each and every individual born on this planet is blessed and endowed with a Talent that is his own AURA.But it takes persistent practice and efforts to actually cream it.

Whether it be dentistry,crafistry or any other profession,it all requires a sense of Passion with oodle of creativeness to make it a masterpiece.

Let me share yet  another story which may tickle your right brain to actually spring forth in action.


In 2002,Markus Zusak sat down to write a book.

He tried narrating it from the perspective of death.It did not come the way it wanted.
He re-wrote the book,this time through the main character;s eye.Again,something was off.
He tried writing it from an outsider's perspective.Still no good.
He tried present tense,past tense,still no good.

So the crux of the story is he rewrote the book 200 times,to get it on the New Yorks best selling charts.,which later turned out to be a movie,The Book Thief.

TAKEAWAY TIP 2:

THE SIMPLE SECRET TO HAVING GOOD LUCK

Just like Markus and Picasso,revise your work 200 times-if you find 200 ways to reinvent yourself,to get better at your craft-then luck seems to have a way of finding you.

They actually earn the chance of being lucky because they KEEP SHOWING UP.

TAKEAWAY TIP 3:

HOW CREATIVITY WORKS?

You can make any job a work of art if you put in the RIGHT ENERGY INTO IT.
Bury your plowshares and work if its your TAKE.

If its not your Passion,they QUIT and make a REVISIT .Do some introspection and find your PASSION and BE zealously and fiercely into it.

TAKE AWAY TIP 4:

HOW DO CREATIVE GENIUSES COME WITH IDEAS?

They WORK HARD at it.

Be relentless in chasing and pursuing your PASSIONATE SELF.
Brainstorm things.Unable to do it alone.Call up a dear friend and do it together.

You will have Clearity.


TAKE AWAY TIP 5:

THE WILLINGNESS TO CREATE GARBAGE?

Many a times it happens that we need a DRIVE or MOTIVATION to produce a Masterpiece.
But this concept is a total NO.

If you want to be a great writer,fix up a schedule and write ,you may produce garbage but thats okay.
On one sunny day,your writing may turn out to be a VIRAL POST.Who knows?
It does not come with a fluk.It takes consistency and persistency to pull on and stretch yourself.

Dont Allow the whims and grins of Life to come in the middle.

TAKEAWAY TIP 6:

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A PROFESSIONAL AND AMATEUR?

Professionals dont work only when they are motivated,they are more like a PRO.
They have a fixed up space and schedule,to which they adhere to and thats how they make a difference in the noisy world of DOES AND DONTS.

So,STOP WAITING FOR MOTIVATION OR INSPIRATION TO STRIKE YOU AND SET A SCHEDULE FOR YOUR HABITS"(CREATIVE HUBS)

TAKE AWAY TIP 7:

THE PAIN OF BEING A PRO

Sometimes,you may start with your Project on a GO,but then there comes a stage where you lack motivation and then it takes a backseat.
So to be a PRO,stick up to a schedule.Follow them monotonously even when you feel lull and dull and the entire world seems to be against you.

YOU NEED TO HAVE A QUICK SWITCH AND BE A PRO AND STEAL THE SHOW.

TAKE AWAY TIP 8:

HOW TO BE MOTIVATED TO CREATE CONSISTENTLY.?

The power of a RITUAL.

As James puts it,

"Use your ritual as an on-ramp for the bigger behaviour and habits you want to build into your life."

You know your day better so plan and revamp.

You have a TRIBE right,whom you GO TO?
Have them by your side.

CHOOSE YOUR TRIBE WISE.
They should be HAPPY WITH YOUR HAPPINESS AND SAD WITH YOUR SADNESS.
A golden RULE.

Have few ,but let them be like JADE BLUE.

And towards the END,

When you fell blue,DO MORE OF YOU.
Follow some Creative tweek pattern and then am sure you are good to go.

To sum it up,find my BELOW INFOGRAPHIC!

Well My readers,Today I take this beaming opportunity to say with great happiness that my Mentor Dr Sameer Savaliya,has started on with his Blogging pursuit.

And I would invite one and all to please click on the below link and read it.

He has been a Powerful Mentor for me,Who has helped me down the valleys and plateaus,
showing me the correct way.He has inspired many souls and redirected their future as well.

A great Speaker and Powerful motivator.
He surely can bring back people dead with stress,back to Bingo!!

Congratulations on your first blog post sir.

http://mypersonalspaceforsensitivesoul.blogspot.in/2018/03/relief-from-existential-angst-blogging.html

FROM DRAMA QUEEN HERSELF

Dr Starry John

PODCAST INTERVIEW WITH GURUCOOL

Hello Friends,

This time Trying something innovative today.
Interviewed My Gurucool;)

He has inspired Me and Sure He Will inspire You.

Keep The Great Work Going ahead.

Continue to Inspire many People like ME;)

Click on the Link and hear:
http://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-hcuyb-86731f



From the DramaQueen Herself
Dr Starry John









             

MAGICAL ELIXIR

So Finally The MOnth of Feb has arrived.January has ended on a high note.

Early Morning as I was browsing through some of the random pages on Facebook,The above picture caught my attention.The picture sank deep within me and the scripture verses shouted out loud.

"Whatsoever you do for the LEast of these Brothers and Sisters of mine,You Do for me."

I believe strongly in an ideology,What Goes around,Comes Around.Throw Love in the World it comes back to you Boomerang!

Throw Generosity around,it comes Back
Throw Hatred well yet again,it comes BAck

So whatever you Do it directly affects you.
Whatever you SOW,you REAP.

The world is caught up in a Tizzy.Fast paced World,its like Rukna Mana hai kind of.

I recount these words from one of My Favorite Poems,

"What is this Life,without Care,If we Have no Time to STand and Stare.?"

Yes My Friends,We are TOO BUSY,Too busy in what?Making ends meet for our Families,running around from pillar to post so on and so forth.Getting a head start in a foot race.??

Cant we Just sit Back and Relax.Spend some Moments with our Inner Self.
Pamper yourself and Do things which Make you Happy.

FIRST THING ,LOVE YOURSELF:

Take Care of your Crown Princess,Lest it Falls;)

Cause unless you are in tuned with your inner self,How can you gel with the world around including your family.

"It is one of the beautiful compensations in this life that no one can sincerely try to help another without helping himself."
                                        -Ralph Waldo Emerson

As For me Its Reading,Blogging(RIght now its 4 am and am weaving this blog post."),Making Cards.
Thats My ME TIME PER SE.

Action Plan:What is your ME Time ?Do it and Plan for it starting from today.
let them be your Energizer Bunnies.

Appa,Amma and Stanu

Second LOVE YOUR FAMILY,your parents,Your Spouse,your Kid,They are your Whole and Sole,and their happiness is directly propotional to yours.

In fact,THEY ARE YOUR LATENT CAPACITY

Dont be so busy in your running errands,Take some time out,They Crave for your Time,perhaps the Greatest gift you can offer.

Go out for dinner,Play together(PS Stay away from your mobile phone for sometime),Laugh out together,Take a stroll together and do Exciting things together.


Remember YOUR WORLD BEGINS WITH YOUR FAMILY.

Action Plan:Do Something For your Family Each day.An Icecream together,A stroll together,a funny movie together.Do it NOW,Do it Today.

Third LOVE YOUR FRIENDS,your added extension of happiness.They are your second self.
Just randomly text them I miss you and I love you.Wont that be a pleasant surprise just to make them feel loved and special.

Call them,Hang out with them,Write a Thank you Letter,Make Cards(Thats my Way of expressing My Love to my Special Ones) Choose which one works for you and do it.

Surely you will be in Euphoria Effect.

Action Plan:Give them a Call.Hang out with them.Write a Thank You letter.

Dedicating this to all My GANGSTA.
PS I LOVE YOU

Fourth SHOW LOVE TO YOUR COLLEAGUES IN YOUR WORK STATION.

They are the ones whom we maximum spend time with.They have been there when you were hit with troubled waters.They have supported you right?

Bring some chocolates(PS Yesterday I did that;)And Oh I was so Happy to see that delightful Smile on their Faces)
Party together,Tell them YOU ARE SPECIAL AND  YOU ARE LOVED.

Action Plan:Go for a Dinner together.Party,Take up a Work station Selfie and share.

Khatti,Meethi and Namkeen with our Gurucool

So its like TREAT OTHER PEOPLE AS YOU WANT YOURSELF TO BE TREATED.
Its that Simple.

People will not remember How wealthy you are? or say How famous you are?

But they will remember always  HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL,THEY WILL REMEMBER THE DAYS WHEN YOU LENT YOUR SHOULDER TO CRY ON,

THEY WILL REMEMBER HOW YOU GRABBED THEM AND HOLDED THEM WHEN THEY WERE CAUGHT UP IN A TRIFLE.

So Fellas,This Feb,lets take up this Challenge of everyday adding some Lustre in the lives of people around us.

In some ways their JOY IS DIRECTLY PROPOTIONAL TO YOUR JOY.

"Do unto Them,as you would want them to Do unto You."


I am Taking up This Challenge.
Will be Posting up here,What I have done,Sure Accountability right?

Life is Short,Make it Worth Living.
Love and Spread Love;)

Last words

We live in a Universe of Give and receive,breathe and exhale,live and die,suck and awesome.Each side depends on the other,and each is relative to one another-every action has an equal and opposite action-so the more you give,the more you receive.And Vice Versa.
                                                                                            -Jen  Sincero


I have Decided on a firm note to Give away something this 28 days of Feb.
(Inspired by Jen Sincero in her Book You are a Badass)

Sure fire will Share on my Blog;) #The after effects


Regards on the Same Wavelength and Same Frequency
Hearing it yet again from the Drama Queen herself
Dr Starry John

An Open Letter To Myself

Dear Me,


This Life is once given,it has got a mixture of its own whims and fancies.Sometimes it seems to be a rollercoaster ride,sometimes it seems like bent and broke.Point blank,THIS IS HOW IT IS.

Some people are like the tempest of autumn,Some are like Thorns,But they have taught you LIFE LESSONS right?
Bitter experiences may make you weak and broke,but HONEY ITS ABOUT THEM,ITS NOT ABOUT YOU.

Cause perhaps you expected deep down,they were little ounce like you.But just dont swoon by them.THEY DONT DESERVE A STAR LIKE YOU.(My Best Friends Pamper me This Kind,PS I LOVE YOU for this.:)

The beautiful Cards,The parties you hosted,the sacrifices you made,just to see that SMILE,may make you feel you WHY THE HELL did I DO for them?
Well again,I would tell you ,ITS NOT ABOUT YOU,ITS ABOUT THEM.

Perhaps THEY DO NOT DESERVE A little damsel like you.
YOu are a jewel,precious and boisterous.

Stop whining around,Wipe the tears,pat your back,wear that Kajal,wear that jhumkas,and steal the show like a swag.

You dont have to change,ITS THEIR LOSE,NOT YOURS.


DOSTON KE KAMI HAI KYA TUJE? A question repeatedly asked by my BRO.

Well Heck yes, I am blessed to have a Great Friend Circle,who pamper me as ALWAYS.

They like bear My Melodramas,They are kind of my MUCHKINS.

""The more You hold tight,the More it Hurts.WHY DONT YOU SET YOURSELF FREE?
Embrace Yourself,Wear your Crown,Wear your smile,Wear your attitude and slay like a boss.
Like a badasss.""

The more you whine and whimper,the more it sets you ablaze,FOCUS ON THE BRIGHTER SIDE.

Be your Own ,Be your Unique You.

Blog often,Meet your friends often,Read often etc,KAAM KI NO KAMI.

LET THEM REGRET,YOU GO ON WITHOUT REGRET.


Perks of being my Own Superstar.

You are Special and Loved by Many,

Next Time,Think Twice whom you Give  Right,NOT ALL DESERVE YOUR ATTENTION AND LOVE.Remember that.



This week is Yours,The Year is yours,MAKE IT AND BREAK IT.

Thats Me Radiant and Chirpy;)

Thanks for Stopping By;)

Would appreciate your comment

CARRY YOUR CHIN IN AND HEAD HIGH

                           A beautiful Poetical extract to Adhere to this New Year 2018

"Whenever You go out of doors,
Draw the chin in,
Carry the Crown of the head high and fill the Lungs to the utmost,
Drink in the sunshine;
Greet your friends with a smile and put soul into every handclasp.
Do not fear being misunderstood and do not waste a minute thinking about your enemies.
Try to fix firmly in your mind what you would like to do,and then,
Without veering of direction,you will move straight to the goal.
Keep your mind on the great and splendid things you would like to do,
And then,as the days go gliding by,you will find yourself unconsciously seizing upon the opportunities that are required for the fulfillment of your desire,
Just as the coral insect takes from the running tide the elements it needs.
Picture in your mind the able,earnest,useful person you desire to be,and the thought you hold is hourly transforming you into that particular individual.....
Thought is Supreme.
Preserve a right Mental attitude-the attitude of courage,frankness and good cheer.
To think rightly is to create.
All things come through desire and every sincere Prayer is answered.
We become like that on which our hearts are fixed.
Carry your chin in and the Crown of your head high."


                                                                                  -Elbert Hubbarrd
Click on the below Link to my Blogpost on Pabitel,somewhat related to this Inspiration;)

http://talkglee.blogspot.in/2016/03/when-my-personallife-deflated-into.html

HELLA 2018

On My Knees as I Stood before the Lord on the Eve of New Year ,I thanked him with a bountiful heart for His many Graces, he dropped in my kitty this 2017.Also forging ahead asked HIM special Grace for the NEW YEAR 2018 to keep Myself the way I am:)

"Forget the former things;do not dwell on the Past.See,I am doing a new thing!Now it springs up;do you not perceive it?I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland."
                                                                                                               -Isaiah 43:18,19

As I write this Blog post,the above Bibilical Verse inspired and spurred me to keep my flame burning.
Many times,the imaginations or in other words,our expectations dont match with the reality.I believe this is a major cause of broken and wounded relationships.

Just when I was muggled up with these thoughts,Tring,Tring goes my Cell Phone.

It was none other than My Mentor,Dr Sameer sir ,He spoke straight,that Yes realities dont coincide ,in those circumstances,YOU will have to take a decision,a firm one and stay grounded.
No one else is going to do that for You.

Great Thanks Sir,You have been there always.

It Happens,people whom we blindly Trust,show their True colors.I am sure it must have happened with all of us.What to do then?
Wallow in self Pity?
Eat tubes of Desserts?
Shed tears?

Well do it.But then make a  Promise to yourself,that you are never going to Cry again for the same reason.Pat your back.Bring that SMILE back.Wear your Confidence on your Sleeves.
Laugh out loud with your Loved ones.AND THEN SIMPLY MOVE AHEAD.

Be ORPHIC !

Its a Pardigm shift.But yes WE NEED TO BE ONE.
These little muddles makes us all the more Beautiful and Brave on the Long Run.