Adjust Your Lenses Please!

                                 Life is how you perceive it.!

Lets start with an example of a  photographer.He  has to manage the lenses of his camera to get a Clear view or say to get a perfect shot.He adjusts the lens,for better clarity and when he is ready with the angles in mind,he successfully carries the Perfecto shot!Ah!

Likewise,Our very Own life is like a Picture that we are trying to capture.It all depends on how we adjust our lenses.When to Zoom in and Zoom out,is upto us.Which part to focus and which to just blur!
  My wise mom always tells me to live everyday life gleefully,accept the day as it comes.Lets not toss and turn in our beds as we await for the day to dawn.Dont worry about tomorrow,as it has its own whims and fancies,so live life as if today is the last day.

      Keep the pictures that make you happy and delete the ones that makes you feel blue.

Dale Carnegie made the point even more

powerfully:

One of the most tragic things I know about human

nature is that we tend to put off living. We are all

dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon

instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside

our windows.

So SMILE PLEASE……….

Happy Reading!

When my personal life deflated into a fizzle and oft on a couch I lie,a dear friend of mine shared this quote.

A Pabitel in one sentence means she lives Her Life in Her own terms.Finds beauty in the simplest of the things,and engages herself in things she likes to do.

On a personal note,I take it to be my Call.When at times I live as per the world,there is rumble and pumble,and the blame game starts.Many a times we also encounter such situations.We become dejected and repressed,and the entire world starts to look uglier.ugh!!It happens.

But Being a pabitel in this fast paced world,will help us to LIVE LIFE,not just drag on.

“For what is past-Thanks!

For what is to come-‘Yes’!”

       -Dag Hammarck Jold

Today take a break or say when you go to bed,fast forward the memories that keeps you in a hogwash.Now analyse,let the left brain do its job(Cause the left brain is the analytical zone.)Many a times our Emotional Quotient(right brain is responsible for that) dominates(for me it always does and I am working still).Then pause and answer the following questions to yourself.

1) Are you called to live this life?

2) Can this worry be worked on?

3) If not can I look for help?(Parents,Best chums?)

4) Can I pray about it as much as I worry about it?Can I surrender it to the Divine?

5) Can I live my day as it comes and not worry about the tommorows?(For tomorrow will have its own worries)

The answers to these questions will be your ultimate solution.

            

   “Don’t put the Keys of Your Happiness in Someone else’s  pocket.!”

                                                                             -Anonymous

We can mimic Pabitel in our fast paced lives.We can tip the reality,and live our lives.

The World can become our Wish Granting Factory,if we want to.(Fault in our stars extract!).

So let the shackles of old thinking patterns breakfree.Let there be a paradigm shift.!

Unlock your energy reserves and jet set and go my dear one.

Decode the little surprises that our Loving God has in store for you.

Live your life by choice

Rather than by chance,

By design rather than by default.

-Robin sharma( Who will die when you       cry extract)

Happy Reading!!!

Strive to be First!

# Make Life worthliving:)

Drum up your Life with Kindness

                              “Kindness in words creates Confidence,

                              Kindness in thinking creates profoundness

                              Kindness in giving creates Love.”

                                                               -Lao-Tza(4^th Century)

On his deathbed Aldous Huxley reflected on his entire life’s learning and then summed it up in seven simple words “Let us be kinder to one another.”

We are all aware of that proverb which says,’Kindness costs nothing.’But you will agree with me that when it comes to putting it in practice,very few have conquered it.Its a rare sight or experience to receive kindness.But it can surely revamp your soul:)

Whether it be in our work places or in our lives.But it is an important embodiment that needs to be inculcated in our lives.

                     “Our lives are mere blips in the canvas of life.”

                                                            -Robin Sharma

So then ,lets be Kind.Lets not be rude.Lets just keep ice on our heads while we work.If there is no kindness,why cant we model it?yes I second to your thoughts it is easy to say but difficult to put it in practice.But we can try,right?

After all Joy,Love,Mercy ,Kindness speaks the same.

                                      “You are an intergalactic love-being of Joy and divine origins.”

                                                                                                   -Tut

How about taking the example of Mother Teresa.Volumes of Her Kindness brims in my Mind.Words often fail to describe her.She is an epitome of Love and kindness.She chose to be kind and loving and helping,nuturing the poor and needy with her tender touch and glimpse.Its hard these days to find people who show her acts of Kindness,but she has left a message to all of us.To be a Peace Pilgrim in this world.

Showing random acts of Kindness can be in our to do list today.Whether you are caught up in that traffic,or waiting for your turn to pay the bill,ways are many,it just takes eyes to see that.

“Kindness,quite simply is the tent we must pay for the space we occupy on this planet.”

                              -Robin Sharma(Who will Cry when I die)

Its In my To-Do list today.How about you?Avoid those jargons and be spiffy and sleek.And see the magic that unfolds before your eyes.Ending this insight with a beautiful quote and I am living this out,hope you also do the same/

                                  Life is no brief candle for me. It is a sort of splendid

                                 torch which I have got hold of for the moment,and I want

                                 to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it

                                 on to future generations.

                                                                     -George Bernard Shaw

#Random acts of kindness.

Share with  me any random act done.

Talkglee.Happy Reading.

When I am Weak,then I am Strong!

Take a Smile

SMILE

                                                 “Smile don’t You know God Loves you,

                                             Come to think of it,

                                             I Love you too.

                                            Take your time to Smile at someone

                                           And before you do.

                                          Someone will be Smiling back at you.”

Today as I was driving to Work,with my head full of those cranky worries,My eyes caught an amazing glimpse.’Two kids smiling at me and waving their hands.’

At that very sight,the worries that stormed my head just bid me adieu!.How magical is that?Two kids whom I have no acquiantances with,just smile and wave at me and in moments the worries disappear and am on a Happy high!

That is the Power of a Simple Smile.Smile can kill your worries.It can make you look beautiful.Most of the time we have those grumpy faces..But why?Cant we Smile?

You maybe wearing those costly Denims,and even convince yourself that you are well dressed.But I will be very much on your face,You are not fully dressed unless you wear a smile on  your face.

                                           

                                           It takes a Second to Smile,

                                          Why don’t we give it a try?

                                          Brain drain we maybe

                                          Qualms may disappear maybe.

                                           Let your smile remind people of the springs

                                           That makes them start a New innings,

                                           Let go of that sigh,

                                          Always be on Happy High.

                                          Our Abba daddy is on our side.

Hope this post has caused you to SMILE and for me that will be a Great Reward.

Do Comment on as You Read .Have that Smile:)

I Call them My Energizer Bunny

DAY 2:

           “Some Friendships do not last,but some friends are more loyal than brothers.”

                                                                                                                           -Proverbs18:24

Friend-“A Reflection of ones own Soul.”I am sure with the utterance of the very word Friend,A Sweet Smile adorns our face.That is the magic of Friendship.We all have our own circle of Friends.School Friends,Graduate Friends so on and so forth.As I take a short recap of My Friend list.Tears of Joy well up my eyes.They have always stood there with me holding me tight.

         

          “The people who are HAPPY for your Happiness,

             And SAD for your Sadness……Keep them around.”

                                                                     -Steve Maraboli

In this Mundane world,it is indeed difficult to find such Friends.(Hands up if you agree!)And even inspite if you do have such Jewels, then please hold them tight,cause with them you are always secured right.I have my own set of friends.Huge friend circle.

But as time flew by,Some withered away like the autumn leaves of the tempest.Yes!I did have my share of qualms.But then All people who walk past our lives have some Lessons to teach.Though I had to understand them in hard way.But I hold no remorse against them.(It was very difficult though!)But the beautiful part,I still have a Huge lot of Friends who are they still with me.Some across the Continents,Some across India,But nothing has changed.

                                “Sometimes the Smallest things take up the most

                                   Room in your Heart.”

                                                                             -Winnie the Pooh.

A simple text,a genuine hug, is all that makes my cheeks aglow.When am down with those energy vampires,a simple chat makes me back with bingo!!It is their company,that Adrenaline rush which I get from them,keeps me grounded.They are my ‘Energizer Bunny’.

We have heard stories of Krishna and Sudama.What an amazing cord of Love they share.Their Standard of living did not come between their Friendship.

There is one more example I wish to share.We all have seen the Movie Billu Barber.Its a tale of two friends,who grew with each other since their childhood. And as time flies,One gets into Bollywood and the other stays in the village.But even then when they meet back several years later,nothing changed.The love remains,the bond remains.

Its no lie that it is indeed hard to find such bonds.But we can make an effort to stay true to our friends.We maybe Busy in our lives,but all that matters is the Joy and Love that we have in our lives through these friends.Money will not take care of you,when you are sick.Yes it may help you to buy the medicines,but if you have no one to care for you and send those Get Well Soon Wishes,then I think you have wasted your time in running behind Money.In your deathbed all that matters is how well you have lived your lives.How well you have treated your friends.

If you don’t have true friend,go and Be One.Go and Love and Share your Joy and share their Pain.Those who don’t Treat you right,leave them,Move ahead.Wish them Best and Move ahead.Life does not stop dear. J

The Happiness that will creep in your soul will be undescribable.Go fight and cuddle and hug and hang out.Have those pyjama parties,Pity parties.Have fun and set your love ablaze.  J

Have a BEST FRIENDS BUCKET LIST and do things together.Laugh out loud as if no  one is seeing.Dance with them as if none is watching.Dress up like crazy and complement.Go beyond the borders and stretch out and ENJOY.

After all friendship is all about BEING YOURSELF.You don’t  need to impress,you just express. J

You can act like Weirdo,have those Mood swings(which I have often,but my friends love me more during that time),have those cat fights(of which am a Fan) but at the end of the day you both are back….

Gratitude wells up my Soul as I think about all my friends.Thank you my dearest Friends for loving me so much and for staying in my Life.Cheers to you all.Love you to the moon and back.

TO DO LIST:

1) Share this message to your friends.

2) Show Gratitude.

3) Patch up with the ones where you have backslided.

4) Tell them How much you love them.

5) Jot it down in your journal.

 Happy Reading!!!

    

Day One :SImply LOVE

“Give and it will be given Unto You,Pressed down,Shaken over.”

Greetings.We are all aware of the above verse from the Bible.It is only in giving,that our blessings are increased ten times,pressed down and shaken over.

Majority of us,would love to be at the receiving end.But that’s where we are wrong.Lets put a short recap of our very own lives.What are we lacking in?Love,joy,Peace,Forgiveness,Finance etc,yeah the list may seem to be endless.But out of that endless list there must be a specific thing,which keeps us in a tailspin.Lets have  quick look and see how to get rid of that and replace it with abundance.

                                                       Lack of Love.

LOVE,a beautiful feeling.A feeling we crave for.After all ,all that we are doing in life is ultimately to feel loved and happy true?So when you have that space in your life for love.What you should be doing?Show hatred?Take a Pity party?Go about expecting people to show sympathy?and I would Say A very big NO.

If you Lack Love, the only way to magnetize it is to GIVE LOVE.Voila!!!(I can see your eyes popping out like those of scoobydoo:p)Ye,you heard it write.GIVE BACK LOVE.Give back love to your spouse who is annoying and gruesome.Give back love to your Parents who seem to be worrying about you.Give back love to your Boss,who seems to be your Brain drain.Yes It seems to be hard,but its worth it.:)

Let me share with you something .

We all must have seen the movie”Lage Raho Munnabhai.”Yes you got that.What does Munna advice to all the people who tune up the radio to see how he helps them to get rid of the Energy Vampires?

SHOW LOVE.SHOW FORGIVENESS.

The Persons Heart of Stone will Break into pieces with every Morsel of Love that you show.”Relate it?Good!

We all can be like that Munna,Loving,Truthful and  Jovial.Show Love and you see Bestial things happen!!

Trust me,It does Works.and give that ‘jadoo ki jhappi’ he gives around to his loved ones.

Love is Simple.It does not bribe.its Just LOVE.

I am not here to give those lessons of Philosophy,But yes am quite Practical.I have done it.So why cant you.Show Love,More Love,let them melt,let your Love be that catapult that breaks that wonderful heart of theirs that has caused them to be so rude to you.So keep going.Keep moving on.The results will show.Oneday or the other.And you shall be Happy much More.

Just do it.

                        

                       

  TO DO LIST:

1 Show Love to that person who seems to be on your Nerves.

2 Wear a Smile.Smile is Contagious.Have an appeasing smile.

3 Show GRATITUDE.

4 Note it down in your Journal.The little things that brings change.

5 Smile as often as you can,with all your might.

6 Life is short,Life is Fun.life is to love.Our journey is short.Lets not waste arguing like its her/his fault.:)

Let go and God.

The SECRET to HAPPINESS

                                                   

                                                     THE SECRET TO HAPPINESS PROJECT:

    “HAPPINESS”-The word itself brings that pretty Smile in your Face.:)

   Fast forward Life,we are Busy.In that monotous work.Tensions,worries,Bills,taxes phew…………BACK UP BACK UP all this behind your minds,as you read this article.See the above quote!:)

  

              “What is this Life full of Care,if We have no Time to Stand and Stare.?”

                                                                                       -William Wordsworth.

The Nature poet describes in this one verse,the grim realities of our lives.But are we called to live this kind of Dull,Boring,Gnawing lives?(Time to Ponder)

And the answer to my above question is a definite NO.Life is Short.Live life to the fullest,

                                                             “Live Life King Size,

                                                               Not Ant Size.”

By King Size I  mean,apart from the Material Riches,we need to have Beautiful and Gleeful relations.We need to use Things and not people.

So cutting the long story short.This SECRET TO HAPPINESS PROJECT is a Series of Daily Inspirational Energies that will keep you in track of your life.Apart from the daily 10 to 5 Work hours.Life has much more in store for you.

To be Happy in the present Moment is the Key.Watever situation you maybe in,its time for some THROWBACK.

Its time for HAPPINESS.

Its time to Celebrate Life.

Have you heard that famous saying in Hindi “Ab nahi to Kab?”

So come on now.Be with me in this Secret to Happiness project and am sure your life will take a 365 degree turn.

Your Life will bounce back like a BOOMERANG!

The world today is so much engrossed in their Work,that they have almost forgotten to live lives to the fullest.Life can be lived,treasured every moment .Life is not only about partying around but also to be happy in every second,every inch.Cause when we are happy,we tune our lives to enjoy.Its all about having that JOY CONSCIOUSNESS.

I would like to End the article with a Quote:

“If we don’t like what’s happening to us in the World,all we have to do is change our consciousness and the world out there changes for us.”

                                                      -Lester Levenson.

Cause the actual JOY is from the INSIDE OUT!!